Sep 20th, 2007
uNDERSTANDING….
It’s hard, right to hope people to understand our way on how we look at things, on how we perceived something, someone, on how we can tolerate this behavior, on how we can stay with someone so long…
It’s hard, because we know, we don’t always can understand anyone else’s mind as well.
But, we can try. Even the closest friends can’t get what are we thinking sometimes even we could claim that we were with them 24-7. It’s people. We are different. That’s one thing to understand.
Understand that,
- not all people can deal with the things that you’re dealing.
- not all people looks at things the same ways you do
- not all people are impatience
- some people can tolerate on the things you dislike
- some people have heart that is thinner than yours. Some words could be harsh to their ears.
- etc.
Those the things that are hard to be understood. But just remind yourself that maybe this people is like this, like that. Hence, you should get better with them to know. Even when they look rude, they can be the most polite people you know. Don’t assume.
I can’t say that I am a nice person. I made lots of mistakes, and maybe I keep repeating them. But, anyway, I tried to be nice to everyone, except those who are not nice to me…but, I know some people deserve forgiveness and who am I to be that ego to not choose to forgive. I think I don’t have anything to lose.
I am happy just the way I am. I hope you guys too.
